Sunday, March 9

No one can stop me from...

No one can stop me from being me and no one should, anyone who wants to stop me from being me, I don't need to expend any energy to try to be in their presence, I only seek people, friends, and associates whom we will respect me being me. listen

In intimate relationship,...

In intimate relationship, really in all relationship. It crucially important to recognize our own and the other person's individuality, their independence, even within the interdependence synergy that we seek to create.

There is an individuality, which must never be given up, because if that is given up then your relationship becomes entirely co-dependent. If that is given up then you no longer have the capacity to be seperate. Neither of you are whole any longer.

This is the conception that we have about our selves when we lose our individuality. This is a point of view, a box that we put our selves and our partners, parents and friends into. We need to be aware of this, and we need to let go of it and see our selves as the individuals that we are.

This then allows us to be truer to ourselves and everyone else as well. We become more useful and enjoyable for ourselves and everyone else. We become authentic.